In the past, I could hold a grudge for a long, long time. The result was that I was angry and bitter. So it was time to let go of grudges. It doesn’t mean I have to like that one jerk from high school. Twenty years is too long to hold onto bad feelings. Will they remember why we are mad at them? I’m not sure if I remember the reasons for being mad at most people. Ok. I remember everything but in sixty years I am hoping to forget. If I see the jerk from high school, I promise I won’t kick him in the shins. That’s progress, right?