Destino’s Year in Review

Looking back over this year, write down three achievements. Three things you feel proud of. Celebrate these.

1. I’m really proud of the work that I’ve done around the blog this year. Thank you stats helper monkeys for preparing a 2014 annual report for this blog. I’m looking forward to another exciting year of blogging.

Here’s an excerpt:

The concert hall at the Sydney Opera House holds 2,700 people. This blog was viewed about 32,000 times in 2014. If it were a concert at Sydney Opera House, it would take about 12 sold-out performances for that many people to see it.

Click here to see the complete report.

2. I received a photo pass for the Mayhem Festival. It was awesome. *Note to self: remember knee-pads or a pillow next time.


3. I’m also very proud of the interviews that I’ve done this year. You can see them all at the interview page.

4. I have been able to maintain blogging friendships. Thank you to everyone who has not been scared off yet! Stick around for awhile. It’ll be fun. There will be coffee. * Note to self: Buy some coffee and fancy flavored creamer.

Destino’s Interview with . . . Nothing More

Mark Vollelunga, the guitarist from Nothing More, called me earlier in the month. We chatted about several things, including their upcoming tour and MTV’s lack of music. I appreciate that he called me, in spite of their hectic schedule.

Nothing More (l-r)  Paul O'Brien (drums), Jonny Hawkins (lead singer,drums), Daniel Oliver (bass, backing vocals), and Mark Vollelunga (guitar, backing vocals)
Nothing More (l-r) Paul O’Brien (drums), Jonny Hawkins (lead singer,drums), Daniel Oliver (bass, backing vocals), and Mark Vollelunga (guitar, backing vocals)

There was a five year gap between your last album and your current album. Was there a reason for the long wait?

Sometimes it just takes time for getting everything right, the way it needs to be. It just took a long time. We were touring for the last album for quite awhile. That album definitely opened a lot of doors.


So the current album is self-titled, although it’s the 6th album. Was there a reason for that?

Yeah, you know. As we thought about it. Thought about all of the songs, wondering if we should title the album after a song. None of them really felt like it should be the title track. It felt more fitting as we were coming out nationally and globally just to keep it self-titled. It was kind of statement, saying “This is Us.” We really feel like we hadn’t perfected but really found our sound as artists. We really matured and found that being self-titled was the best thing to say.

You guys are from Texas. What’s the music scene like there?

Yeah, San Antonio is a great city. They’ll love it for sure. Unfortunately, the scene is really metal and Tejano. It’s quite a big gap between the two. That’s just what the bands there do. I think it has a lot to do with the radio station there. Completely Clear Channel. They don’t play anything new. I’m not talking crap about Clear Channel or anything.  The way their play list works, they don’t play anything past 2006.

I listen to 89x out of Detroit. They play “This is the Time” a lot. They were playing it when I was dropping the kid off at school today.

Do you enjoy doing videos?

In a way, yes. The “This is the Time” video – we’re very happy with the final product. It was difficult to shoot.

There was a lot of water.

Absolutely. It was freezing. In February. We were in California, which is nothing to complain about since their weather is always perfect. The water was definitely cold. Literally, after every shot, we would run over and all crowd around the space heater. It was a funny experience.

2014 was a great year for you guys. Do you feel like all of your hard work is paying off?

Absolutely. We were thoroughly blessed and grateful with every thing that happened this year. We really can’t wait to see what’s ahead in 2015.
I’ve been with Jonny for 15 years. We’ve been a band touring for the past 10 years. So really everything has happened as it should. We’re happy with how we’ve matured our sound and grown as artists and gotten to the level we are now instead of any time before. It wouldn’t feel right. It wouldn’t be as good. We wouldn’t be as ready. We’re definitely grateful for that.

What’s on the agenda for 2015?

Definitely lots and lots and lots of touring. In January, we’ll head out with Periphery. Love those guys. Killer band. We’ll do a 7 week tour with them. Until February. Then we’ll fly to Australia to do SoundWave there for 2 weeks. We’re all so pumped about that. It’s going to be so cool

From there, we’ll fly to Europe and do 5 or 6 weeks with Halestorm. That’s going to be really cool too. Then finally hopefully, we’ll be off for a month.

May is just lining up right now. In May, we’ll do another headliner tour. We’re not sure who we’re bringing in for support yet but we’re thinking about that a lot.


If you could choose any bands on the planet, who would be on your Dream Tour?

That’s a great question. Nine in Nails is definitely up there. That would be pretty cool. I grew up listening to Metallica so that’s one for sure. Tool that would be really cool as well. I’d like to have some conversations with those guys. The band, Thrice, as well. They’re probably my favorite band.


Who do you listen to?

I like Flyleaf a lot. Something about Lacey’s voice is natural, if you will. You can really feel her passion. You really believe every word that she’s saying, that she’s feeling it. That’s cool when stuff gives you goosebumps. That’s the stuff I go after.


I see that Jonny is listed as the extra drummer. Do you do that very often? How does that work?

If you see us live, you’ll understand. Paul is behind the kit, the drumkit. Up front, our bass player Dan actually built this contraption we call Drumtron. Basically, it’s a kickdrum that is horizontal so you can hit it with a stick and a snare and various metal items that are percussion. That make sounds.

So we have sections in our set, where Jonny plays those drums at the same time as Paul. There are also two four toms that are horizontal that Dan and myself play as well. It’s all percussive. A lot of drum sections.


You guys have a song called Mr. MTV. Do you remember when MTV had music?

Yeah, that’s the point. That song we recorded it just like that. The beginning is the same as the Dire Straits tune, “Money for Nothing.” It’s kind of the point. It was written when MTV was going strong, playing videos and making an impact on music. Now it’s quite the opposite. Now they don’t play any music. Although, the song is called “Mr. MTV.” It’s more about corporations like that are trying to bastardize the youth of our generation today – feeding them bullshit and lies. It’s sad. We’re all a part of the problem. The song is just a statement saying the truth so we can do something about it.


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Off the Wall Idea: Wine Follies

What’s the best idea you’ve ever had? Regale us with every
detail of the idea — the idea itself, where it came to you, and
the problem it solved.


It may not have been the best idea. It may have been the silliest or most outlandish. I may have been drinking quite a bit  of wine and preparing for a hangover.

Sometime that evening, I thought it would be a marvelous idea to have a service for college kids with hangovers. They could call and someone would deliver aspirin, chicken noodle soup and a beverage. A non-alcoholic beverage. The customer could also specify whether they wanted a grandma type figure or a nurse with a figure.

Obviously, this idea may need some work. It makes me giggle a little bit to think about how awesome it would be if it really existed.

New Year, New You

Tomorrow is the first day of a brand new year. Tomorrow
you get to become anyone in the world that you wish. Who
are you? If you decide to stay “you” share your rationale.

It is so tempting to become someone else. Who wouldn’t want to be someone thinner? Someone with more money . . . someone with a brand new car.

Although, I am tempted to become a different person, I think that I will keep playing the character of myself. My rationale is that I can become a thinner, richer person with a better car. I just have to keep working . . . and working. So I’ll be over here working and believing that better things will come my way eventually.

I’m still trying to talk myself into the exercising and dieting but it may be necessary this year. I totally put off yoga, dancing and dieting last year. Here’s to another year of working yoga and dancing into my schedule.

Three Sentence Post: Daily Post


Occasionally, I post some of my bucket list goal achievements here on the blog. I hope that you find the posts entertaining or educational. When I started the blog in 2013, the bucket list had 183 items. Since then I have completed six goals. Hopefully, in 2015 I can cross several more goals off of the list. Only 177 more to go!

Here is a list of the things that I’ve completed and blogged about on Chasing Destino.

1. We went to see Erykah Badu in concert.


2. We visited the Rocky Mountains.

Maybe more majestic. But the mountains have their own magic.
Maybe more majestic. But the mountains have their own magic.

3. The Molly Brown House was also on the list. Did you know no one ever called her Molly? For some reason, the press named her Molly.


4.  I volunteered for the Girl Scouts. I even have my own Girl Scout shirt with my name on it.


5. Talk like a Pirate Day is September 19. Aarrrrrr!!

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6. We went white water rafting. It was a lot of fun. It was kind of scary but I would do it again.


They were laughing because they got drenched by a huge wave. Good times. :)
They were laughing because they got drenched by a huge wave. Good times. 🙂

This was my first three sentence post. It wasn’t very entertaining or educational. It wasn’t long enough to be a mission statement or a manifesto.

Wonder Woman Uniform: NaBloPoMo

Is there something you wear that makes you feel happy?


This year my favorite shirt is my Wonder Woman shirt. It’s really comfortable. So far the color hasn’t faded, even after multiple washings.

I try not to wear it too much. If I could wear it everyday, I think I would. I wish I could have a whole closet of Wonder Woman shirts. My blogging uniform could be a Wonder Woman shirt, jeans and red shoes. On special occasions, I could wear the tiara.

I found this article about people who dress the same all of the time. Interesting. I never thought about Slash and his top hat being a uniform but I guess it is. It’s all about branding and being recognized.

Someday, maybe I’ll be recognized because of my Wonder Woman uniform.

Destino’s Black & White Photo Challenge: Outside of the Box

This week’s challenge is “Outside of the Box.” So this means, anything goes. Whoever participates is free to post anything that they would like. 🙂